Weekends are where my deficit goes to die
Mon to Fri: 1900 kcal, protein on point, steps done, feel great.
Saturday: pub lunch, 4 pints, takeaway. Easily 4000.
Sunday: roast at my mum's, "I've already ruined it" mindset, 3500.
Weekly deficit: gone. Six weeks of this and I have lost 0.4kg. I am basically eating at maintenance with extra steps.
I know the answer is "eat less on the weekend" thank you. What I want to know is how people who have actual social lives and a mum who makes roast potatoes actually do it.
Stop trying to make Saturday a diet day. Make Mon-Fri 1700 instead of 1900 and give yourself 2900 for Saturday. That is the same weekly total as 1900 x 7 but it fits your actual life.
Then on Saturday: eat the pub lunch, have the pints, skip the takeaway. Or skip the lunch and have the takeaway. Pick two of three. The "I've ruined it so I might as well" thing is the real problem and it only happens if Saturday has a number you cannot hit.
Pick two of three is a rule I can actually follow. The 1700 weekday thing scares me a bit but I will try it.